Allusion Vs Reality


He looks at her profile quite stealthily, the way a thief would barge into someone’s abode in the middle of the night, searching for something that he can take for his own. Perhaps, he wanted those lips grazing on his, matte red lipstick or not, it doesn’t matter. A flash of white directed at his general direction would suffice but she smiles the way a girl would who is aware that she is beautiful and blatantly proud of it and can’t even be bothered to grace him an icy stare. Frankly, just a glimpse would be enough to trigger that tingling somewhere on his nether regions. He feels cheated yet it doesn’t feel right because where he is is not where he is supposed to be. What he feels is not in the right place. So, overriden with guilt, he ended what he had with the other girl, who is really not the other girl. Just one of them, or so he prefers to believe. After all, someone can be willingly turned into no one or just about anyone depending on someone’s preference at a given point in time. The lesser she knows, the lesser the pain perhaps. But she knows that he knows that she somehow knows and he doesn’t care and she knows that. Or he does but what difference does that make? We are all born not to give a shit. Or at least that’s what he prefers to believe.


So the main girl, who isn’t really the main girl, unbeknownst to him (or perhaps he knows) can’t get enough of anyone and an imagination she quite has. She feeds his with a myriad of possibilities, sometimes with that knowing smile pretending to not know about his predicament, or for most of the time, that aloof stare, those wet lips slightly parted, pretending to be a virgin in this game of subtle seduction. There is a hint of excitement running through her flesh everytime she sees him, talks to him, but it’s the same with another, and then another, and yet another. Insatiable, she is like no other hot-blooded female—  quite averse to what she is trying to portray, which is a cross between a stoic and a domineer. Or perhaps a sweet thing, just a sweet, pretty little innocent thing she could be. He is drawn, almost blinded, but such is a man overcome by desires as powerful as the groin of Eros, rendering him incapable of reason. She holds that power and she intends to use it like an armour, pretending to be a shield, disguised as an armour, I guess one would suppose that it’s the other way around, but it can be however one prefers it to be.


She intrigues him, and he, her. Pretty soon, someone is making the first move and it’s not her, though she is beyond tempted to do so. Maybe she will. Or he will. Then the waiting game will be over.


And then reality sinks in. Life is just a game, he would say. So on to the next because such is how it is— just a game. He almost always wins.


Well, almost.


You know what they say. No one in this life gets away with anything.


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My Ex-Boyfriend Cheated on Me

My ex-boyfriend cheated on me.

It’s beyond bad because I didn’t see it coming, he’s the first guy I loved and sacrificed things for (including a big career decision), first boyfriend I introduced to my family, first guy I literally lived with even when it is against my moral principles to live with a guy outside marriage. He’s also the type of guy who seemed too nice, too smart to do mundane things such as cheating. What’s worse than that is that the girl he cheated with was also in a relationship at the time they started fooling around. Crazy, right? Shit happens. At least I wasn’t alone if that’s any consolation.

So how do you define cheating? Cheating doesn’t necessarily mean having sex or any other form of physical encounter with someone other than your partner. It’s simply doing stuff that makes you feel guilty or, if you’re heartless, supposed to make you feel guilty afterwards. The act of entertaining someone else beyond the ‘boundaries of friendship’ is cheating. I have no idea if they ever did the deed while we were still together but I do know for sure that the girl felt very very guilty resulting to her getting confined to a hospital (perhaps to get checked for STD or who-knows-what lol I couldn’t care less). I also know for sure that my ex accompanied the girl on at least one of her gigs while we were still together.

Our relationship was on the rocks, I knew that. We were trying to work it out and none of the two of us were really doing mind-blowing efforts, but I can not simply comprehend how hard it is to just tell the truth and walk away rather than cheating. Telling a girl that it’s up to her if she wants to break up or not when he knew what he was doing behind her back. Just thinking about that right now, it kinda means that I was ‘alone’ in the relationship because he imposed it on me to decide on it alone which is really dumb. That’s why people in relationships are called ‘couples’, both should decide on things together.

Sure he mentioned that there’s a girl he liked a couple of weeks after I moved out but his choice of words was quite insulting. He didn’t simply LIKE someone. More like fooled around with someone behind my back. And I’m not even sure if he would tell me about it if he didn’t know that I had to come to know about what he did.

Finding out about what he did was a surprise. And it was weeks after we broke up and I moved out. His odd behaviours started to make sense—like how he changed our couple profile picture, how he started guarding his phone’s screen protectively even when I wasn’t even trying to look. Activating secret conversations on Messenger, like only people up to no good do that it’s so dumb not to think that a girl won’t suspect. Or his disinterest to hear me gushing about my travels. I was too trusting and naive to not notice that the girl in question has been liking and commenting on his Instagram posts on a regular basis. That she has been writing cryptic posts about him obviously trying to channel her desires and at the same time obscure them.

The word ‘nice’ or ‘mabait’ is the last thing that would ever come to my mind about someone who is also a woman like me, who knows the depth of another woman’s emotions, who knew that this guy was practically married to a girl for years sans the papers yet decided to pursue him stealthily anyway right under another girl’s nose. Nice is not the right adjective to describe a girl who cheated on her boyfriend at the time with another guy who also cheated on his girlfriend at the time. There’s nothing nice about that. Nice is the wrong word for a girl who boldly teases someone’s boyfriend that he has a crush on her. Nice is not a word for a girl who blatantly proclaims her love for Jesus while being aware that she has wronged at least two people. And that’s how he described her. Nice.

In retrospect, I guess I was not entirely clueless that my relationship with my ex was coming to an end because I’ve been so bored of our relationship for so long and I wasn’t really trying hard to bring the sparks back. I had my fair share of misgivings. I’d wanted to break up several times prior but held back because I didn’t want us to end, I’d gone too comfortable with him. But I’m not gonna make this my FAULT because this.. this is my truth. Perhaps these cheaters have their own versions of truth but one thing I am certain of is this: nobody deserves to be cheated on. People should come out clean from the very start, lay out their truths because either way it’s always gonna hurt but I believe that telling the truth will hurt less, the duration even lesser. Perhaps I wouldn’t be writing this had he told me the truth right from the start rather than babbling things like ‘I just want to be alone’ or ‘I’m tired of other people’s expectations’. Just save it. Say ‘let’s break up because if we won’t I will cheat on you..’ Like, man it up! And he knew that I was the type of girl who always prefers the truth, who speaks out even when her words hurt.

Am I bitter? I don’t really know. The complexity of human emotions prevents me from understanding what exactly I feel at different points in time. Mostly, I am happy or in love or just chillin’ but sometimes the bad stuff would hit me too hard without warning. I guess moving on or forgiveness from something or someone must take more than months or years or perhaps for the rest of someone’s life (I hope not). I’m not even sure if the forgiveness process has begun because no one asked for forgiveness, I didn’t even hear the word ‘sorry’.

Why am I writing this? I don’t know, perhaps to let it all out?

But good things really do come out after the bad. Like I was able to rid myself of a guy who was too afraid to get an office job because he must be innately aware that he’s too easily tempted. I’d always wanted to find out if he would cheat when surrounded by other girls in the workplace setting so I persistently asked him to get a real job that at the same time pays the bills (I wasn’t about to shoulder the rent and expenses alone).

One of my friends asked me why I didn’t fight for my relationship. I told her there’s really nothing left to fight for because no sane girl would try to keep a man not worth fighting for. You forgive a guy who cheated on you once, he’ll likely do it again. Or he won’t. Either way, I’ll be one paranoid loser.

My South Korea Visa Application Experience

Hello there! Last night I received the good news that my South Korea visa application was approved and I am beyond elated. I mean, it’s the first piece of good news I’ve ever had this week. Work this week was tough and there’s an uncle who was hospitalised and I missed my cats’ vaccination schedule so I really needed just one piece of good news 😩.

First off, let me tell you that this is not a comprehensive guide on how to apply for a South Korea visitor visa. I’m too lazy for that and anyways, so many bloggers already did that. Instead, I want you to visit a few of these blogs because they helped me a lot when I was preparing my documents 🙂

I’m just gonna tell you about my experience in applying for one now that the ever evasive Company Alphalist is now part of the requirements.

***UPDATE: The Embassy of South Korea has removed the Company Alphalist on the list of requirements. Which is really good because I don’t think there’s an employer who would provide one to their employee for security reasons.

I was given a claim stub dated April 23rd. I applied only recently– April 16, 2018– and checked my visa status online last night. Yes, it is already available and yes you can check your status online by visiting the Korea Visa Portal. I found out about this from the website pinoyadventurista.com. Click the link for the step-by-step guide on how to proceed. 🙂

For a step-by-step guide on how to accomplish the requirements, you can check out iamaileen.com. Not only did the author provide detailed information, but this blog is also very interactive. I learned helpful tips especially from the people commenting on their blog sharing their experiences, good or bad, when they applied for their visas.

For instance, that’s where I found out that the lines outside the embassy are really long especially during peak season and that not everyone gets accommodated so my friends and I came prepared. The Embassy didn’t entertain people until 8 in the morning but we went at around 4 in the morning and there was already a long queue. When I filled up the log sheet, I was visitor # 135. I heard the guard say that they are letting in 250 people. Visa application time is from 8:00-11:30 am only. We were safe! Haha. BTW, this is in Taguig, BGC, Metro Manila.

And here’s another helpful website — laagankaayo — detailing how to fill up the application form. But before following this guide or any other helpful website, please make sure to visit the embassy’s official site for the up-to-date list of requirements and application form.

When I was preparing the requirements, I made sure that there will be no loopholes as much as possible. I even submitted a cover letter explaining why I am travelling to South Korea. I gave my all, made sure that no more information will be needed from me by the Embassy. They do call applicants if they require more information.

One of my friends joining me on this trip received a call from the Embassy. She was asked why she declared on her application form that she’ll be staying in Seoul for 7 days but on her Certificate of Employment (COE), she had 9 days of vacation leave approved. She was also asked whether she’s travelling alone or not, where she works and how long she’s been working on her present job. Also, this is going to be her first out-of-country trip. She answered all questions truthfully and guess what, her visa got approved! 🙂

BTW, on the COE, it is not a requirement to include your approved leaves at work but as there is such option to include in our COE (we work for the same company), we asked for our approved leaves to be included for an extra boost! We’ve both been working for the same company for over three years now. 🙂

The most challenging part is obtaining a copy of the Company Alphalist. Our employer doesn’t issue one due to confidentiality — we have over 41,000 employees in Metro Manila alone and we’re big on information security so I can totally understand.

I logged another request to our HR Dept that they provide a letter explaining why they can’t issue me an Alphalist. It took two follow up requests to get an answer, which I understand because I bet I am the first (or one of the firsts) employees to request such document. They issued not only a letter but also a copy of the stamped BIR Transmittal Form and a copy of a notarized Sworn Declaration form. Aww.. Very supportive, right? I so love my employer! 💞

I immediately gave my travel buddies a heads up to send a follow up on their requests. They got theirs only a couple of days after I did. Sweet life.

As for the Bank Certificate and Statement, I got mine from BPI using my payroll account since it is more active. The amount, to be safe (or so I have read), make sure you have at least P10,000 for each day of your stay plus extra amount as some sort of an emergency fund and to assure the officer that you still have enough to live by after your trip and that you are not planning to exceed your time there. Prolly it’s safe to have at least twice the amount of your budget. I am not sure how much the ADB matters but I have read that it is safe for it to be P10,000 and above.

Anything to satisfy the officer-in-charge that you are financially capable to fund your travel. I don’t know if the process is different if you have a sponsor.

If you have a PRC card, do submit a copy, too. I have one (I’m a Registered Nurse). I think it’s a boost on my application.

Oh well papel. That’s all I could think of right now. But one thing’s for sure.. Someone’s excited to claim her passport on the 23rd!

And that’s me! 😉

TRAVEL Malaysia: Container Hotel Penang Review

I stayed in this avant-garde place called Container Hotel. As I am working in the export industry, I guess the name of the hotel drew me in. Yes, my job has definitely rubbed off on me.

I think only a small portion of it was made out of intermodal containers but, whatever, I’d highly recommend this place to anyone visiting Penang Island. Not only is the hotel located in the heart of the heritage site (and near the other landmarks such as Clan Jetties) but it’s also very affordable. I only paid 76.50 RM for two nights. That’s about only 10 USD per night. I booked direct on their website where they offer the best rates. Click here to book.

Here’s what the inside looks like. Guy on the first photo, that’s Timothy. Such a nice fellow who greeted me when I reached at past ten in the evening.

And I call this my tiny cat box. Haha. There’s nothing quite like it! It was so cozy and comfortable! There’s fan inside and a dropdown desk/mirror. It’s got a roll up curtain for privacy.

The shared washroom was okay, very clean plus their were hair dryers. I can’t live without one you know. Whenever I book a place to stay, I always check first if there’s at least one hair dryer in that place. 😂

The location of this hotel couldn’t be more perfect as it is strategically located within the heritage site. With street arts everywhere, George Town is like this big open-air museum. There’s always art hiding in a corner on little back alleys and side paths. I didn’t have to go far from the hotel to find one. Below were hidden in a narrow street just across my hotel.

And this one right here was on the hotel’s right wall!

And this was just a few steps away.

Another reason why you should book with Container Hotel is that it’s near the Weld Quay bus station, about ten minutes walk away. It’s also in the route of the free Rapid Central Area Transit (CAT) shuttle hop on bus. If you’re visiting Penang, don’t miss this free ride as it will take you around the city including Komtar area and 18 other points of interests.

That’s it, for now! I’ll write about my Hop on Hop Off experience with both CAT and Penang HOHO on my next blog.

TRAVEL Malaysia: Exploring Penang Island

I remember feeling so excited when I boarded my plane in Singapore at eight in the evening back in September. I had prepared quite an itinerary and intended to follow it no matter what. I recall thinking to myself after the trip that I was glad I chose Penang Island for my first ever solo out of town trip.

I reached Penang International Airport a little past nine. The airport was okay, it was small, similar to the one in Clark or Naga. It was a little deserted I guess because it was a little late already.

My first purchase was a SIM card pack. If I remember correctly, it costed me 10 MYR and it came with 1GB data, which was more than enough for my 2-day stay as I only needed the mobile data for navigation. It was a good investment, really, as I was able to visit so many attractions without me getting lost.

After buying the SIM card, I went outside the airport and waited for Bus No. 401E which would take me to Weld Quay. I paid only 2.70 MYR for the ride which took me to my destination in 45 minutes.

If you’re not as cheap as I am, you can flag a cab. Grab is also thriving. But if I were you, I’d choose the bus not only because it’s whole lot cheaper but it’s also safe and the seats are comfortable and spacious.

I reached Weld Quay at around 10:15 pm and walked for ten minutes and, voila, there’s my hotel! I’m going to write about my Container Hotel experience on my next blog post.

I went to sleep after taking a shower to prepare for my Day 1 in Penang Island!

I woke up at five in the morning haha Iknowriiight I was so excited and couldn’t wait for the day to start only to find out that it was still dark outside. Not wanting to go back to sleep, I explored the inside of the hotel and found this cozy library on the 2nd floor of the building. Definitely my thing though I dint have the time to explore the books..

Finally, the sun came out at 7 am but first things first.. I saw this street art just across the hotel and you know what happened next. I remember it was drizzling that morning but it didn’t dampen my spirit. I can’t recall why I was laughing in this photo but I know for sure that I was happy and contented though very much alone. Alone but happy. 🙂

After the nth shot, the drizzle stopped and I took off to Weld Quay and boarded the CAT bus.

This is a free hop on shuttle bus which takes you to 19 points of interests within the city. It weaves thru the heritage site and to the Komtar commercial district.

After exploring Komtar and taking photos of the Hindu temples and Times Square, I waited for the Penang Hop On Hop Off double decker bus at Stop 6.

I will write about my HOHO experience on one of my next blogs.

I reached Stop # 13 Kelawei in 30 minutes. I chose this as my first stop because of the temples. There are two attractions in Kelawei– the Burmese Buddhist Temple and Wat Chaiyamangalaram (Thai Buddhist Temple).

Both had enormous Buddha statues inside their main temples, one was standing, the other reclined.

Here are the photos I took of the Burmese Temple.

I thought the lady looked so elegant so I took her photo with the enormous Buddha.

The Thai temple was so much bigger. I think there were like three temples inside the complex.

Not to be outdone, the temple’s got it’s own version of a ginormous Buddha– and a reclining one at that!

Please bear with me as I am in the temple-hopping stage at this point in my life. 😂

Next stop was Kek Lok Si. It’s this huge temple complex perched on top of a hill and is said to be the largest Buddhist temple in all of Malaysia.

Rows and rows of buddhas around the temple..

Turtle pond at the base of the temple..

After Kek Lok Si, I skipped the rest of the stops on the city route and moved on to the beach route. When switching to the beach route, one will need to drop at the intersecting stop in Gurney Drive. From Gurney Drive, I asked to be dropped off at Holiday Inn to visit Batu Ferringhi beach. From there, I had to ask a local on how to get to the beach without passing through the luxury hotels.

Batu Ferringhi is charming in its own way. It’s not as lovely as the white sand beaches that we got here in the Philippines well firstly because the sand wasn’t white. It would be fairer to compare it to Laiya beach in Batangas.

But like all other beaches, the view was great and there were all sorts of water activities such as jet skiing and parasailing. I would’ve had a go but I brought no spare clothes and I also thought it’d be a little awkward if I went parasailing alone.

So I whiled away my time under a tree near the beach and found company on this cute little fellow.

I know he looks annoyed on the photos but isn’t he a cutie? 😍 I remember feeling so lonely but Mr. Grey made me forget about my loneliness. Yep, he’s the legit Mr. Grey (not that psycho in the movies haha) This kitty is the reason why I missed the 5pm HOHO bus and it was worth it. He was like any other kitty, he purred a lot when I stroked his neck and chain. He also kept on rubbing his soft body against mine. How I badly wanted to take him back home with me 😢.

Every time I look at these photos, I feel a pang of pain huhu I badly miss him! (I know right, crazy cat lady alert 🚨 )

I will surely visit Batu Ferringhi again in the near future and I’d be sure to give Mr. Grey more than just a pat. Yes, I’ma hug him like crazy!

I almost didn’t want to say goodbye but it was time for me to leave to catch the 5pm bus so I had to let Mr. Grey go with a heavy heart. 😭

I headed back to the direction of the road only to watch the HOHO bus pass me by. On my way to the bus stop, I saw these tiny monkeys walking/clinging on the cables. It was such a wow moment. I mean, how often do you get to see stray monkeys on inhabited places? The one which crossed the road thru the cable even stared me in the eye probably realizing that I was lurking.🙊

The next bus won’t be until 6pm so I decided to walk a little farther to kill time until I reached the next stop, Hard Rock hotel.

I discovered that there was a nearby dirt road leading to the beach so I decided to check it out and I’m glad I did because I got to ride on a horse by the beach! Just my luck! Haha.

The owner of this horse told me that his horse liked me because he was nuzzling me on my neck! I bet that’s how the horse gets to convince tourists like me to ride his back! Kidding!

Here’s the view I got while riding on the horse:

I wished I didn’t have to leave sooner but I also couldn’t wait to reach my next destination before nightfall. You’ll see why on the next photos.

So from Hard Rock, I asked to be dropped at Straits Quay. From there, I walked for about 15 minutes and stopped by this place where streetfood were sold and I meet these two lovely Amirah’s! I forgot the name of the third girl, silly me.

They fed me an assortment of goodies, i forgot what they were called but they’re really good!

Afterwards, I had to bid them farewell and headed on to my next stop– the Penang Secret Avatar Garden! Before I got to see the garden, I had to pass by the Thai Pak Koong temple. Near the temple was a topiary garden. There were also lots of animal stone sculptures surrounding the topiaries.

This was past seven in the evening and it was nearing sunset so I rushed to the shore and was just in time to capture this moment!

And what better way to cap off all of my adventures for the day than to behold the beauty of the Avatar Garden!

So that’s how I spent my Day One at Penang Island! Day Two was exploring the heritage site in George Town, which I wrote about on my previous blog post.

I will talk about my Container Hotel Penang experience on the next blog. Ciao!

TRAVEL Malaysia: Exploring George Town

After seven months of procrastinating, here I am, writing about my Malaysia trip back in September 2017. I’ve been meaning to write for so long but I got caught up juggling my time between work (ugh, iknowriiiight), reading books, giving warm baths to my cats, eco-volunteering, hanging out with friends and traveling some more.

George Town, Penang. How can I forget about this place? It is so lovely in a rustic way — old British colonial buildings, street arts everywhere, mosques, ornate temples, clan houses and rows of Chinese shops — yet it boasts modern structures, skyscrapers, swanky shopping malls and artsy cafés and boutiques. It has several app-ready bikes for rent in its old streets. With its well-preserved heritage buildings, the city of George Town has been listed as a UNESCO World Heritage site.

What makes this place memorable for me are the numerous street arts featuring cats. Hah! If you are following me on instagram, you’d already know how batshit crazy I get when around cats. You’d also know that these street arts are the reason why I decided to visit Penang in the first place. Below are just a few of the numerous cat arts I saw in George Town.

And of course I had to take selfies with one of the cute stray cats. I mean, what good are cat murals without the real-life inspirations? Seriously this cutie is so adorable I had to stop the urge to take her back home with me.

All of the cats I saw looked well-fed and with thick fur — a possible indication that they are healthy stray cats. 🙂 Which is not at all surprising because the food in George Town was really good. I didn’t get to take a lot of food photos because I was always so hungry after my adventures around the island I just devoured everything on my plate without taking photos first like I always do when dining at some place new. To give you an idea, their food is mostly a hodgepodge of Indian, Malay and Chinese cuisine.

I always had my breakfast at this place just behind my hotel. The food was the best and really cheap! I spent less than two dollars for every decent meal– that includes 2-3 viands plus rice and rose tea. I particularly loved this really spicy lamb dish. It was so good I forgot to note down what it’s called. The chicken was also yummy. Whatever sauce they added did the magic.

Secondly, it was my first time traveling out of the country alone and I’m telling you now, going solo is very liberating. There’s nothing quite like waking up in a foreign place all by yourself. No one to depend on but yourself. No other decisions to consider except yours. And it had me thinking about doing this solo traveling thing over and again.

That is, until I get tired taking my own photos! That’s the downside when traveling solo. Thank god for my trusty iPhone 7 and its’ camera timer, I was able to take decent shots without having to beg passers-by to take my photos. Haha.

Here are a few more street art photos..

But seriously I am just so glad I ticked this solo travel thing in beautiful Penang Island!

Ciao for now! I will write about the whole of my Penang Island trip on my next blog!

Oh, Singapore!

Two weeks just ain’t enough if you are planning to visit the Lion City but if you only have limited time like I had then you just have to make the most out of it.

Singapore is my first ever out-of-country travel experience and I’m glad it was! Let me provide a trivia.. Did you know that the Singapore passport is the most powerful passport in the world right now? Yes. You’re welcome!

It is an expensive country for a third-world fellow like me but I chose it because, first off, it’s so glam and the people there looked like they just came out of fashion shows. Yes, in the plural.

Seriously. I love the way Singaporeans dress and I think their sense of style just rubs off on everyone who visits because everyone just looks so sleek and á la mode! Well, almost.

During my visit, I felt so underdressed in my favorite wraparound floral dress and running shoes just looking at this lady sporting a blond bobcut wearing a loose, wrinkled white shirt and black slacks and heels (heavily, dramatic sigh). I can never pull off a wrinkled shirt! Kill me now.😫

Before we continue, let me warn you. This is not strictly a travel blog. So don’t expect me to provide itineraries and DSLR-quality photos. I write in a story-telling kind of way. I like whiling away every moment so I don’t really keep track of my time and the places I visit. And I suck in photography as you can see. Quite content with my iPhone, I’ve no plans at all buying heavy contraptions with so many appendages that I think are so hard to figure out!

But please don’t leave my page just yet. So far, you’ve already invested a minute reading so what harm will it do if you stay for a couple more? 😅

Allow me to proceed by telling you that this city is so clean. God, you must be wondering how dirty my home city is and I don’t really wanna talk about that, ha-ha. In Singapore, there were no cigarette butts, chewing gums stuck under public benches, candy wrappers on the streets. Heck, there was even no speck of dust you could practically lay down everywhere without ruining your outfit. There were no stray dogs. I saw a couple of cats and they were all sooo black and humongous the cat lady in me wanted to take them home!

Third, it is an expensive city alright but there were so many attractions you don’t have to spend a single dime apart from the food, souvenirs (bought mine at Bugis Street) and bus/metro rides. I visited Merlion Park, Gardens By the Bay, Marina Bay Sands, Sentosa Island, and roamed the streets of Singapore without coughing up extra cash. Okay, except for the bars of chocolates I bought at VivoCity. 😂

Also, Changi Airport in itself is a major attraction you can spend a day just touring between the terminals! It’s got everything– designer brand stores, lounge rooms, movie theatres, a lap pool, game rooms– you name it! In Terminal 2 alone, there are indoor gardens, a Koi Pond and a Sunflower Garden on the rooftop. No wonder this airport is named as the best in the world!

Captured these cute couple on a video I made of the Sunflower Garden. Aren’t they sweet??!! 😋

I didn’t pay for my accommodation as I stayed at my friend’s place. Okay, that’s my second tip to anyone planning travels anywhere: connections. It’s always a bonus to have friends who live in the area you are visiting.

I want to highlight the light shows at the Gardens By the Bay and Marina Bay Sands. They happen every.single.night. If I recall correctly, the show at GBB starts at around 7:30pm Singapore time. Afterwards, the lights and water show at MBS is at 9:00pm. Seriously, if you’re staying even for just one night in Singapore, you must not miss these light shows! MBS is only a short walk from GBB so come on now don’t be a lazy bum and watch both shows! I tell you, it’s worth it!

Last but not the least: pandas! It’s always been my dream to see a panda for real and it came true when I went to Singapore and saw not one but two pandas– Kaikai and Jiajia. 😻 The male one, Kaikai, put on quite a show when he seemingly struck a pose on his wooden throne. He’s so kawaii!!!

The female, Jiajia, was the quintessential panda. All it did was sit and eat carrots the whole time we were watching her. So adorable!

The pandas are at the River Safari in Mandai Lake Road, btw. It’s a twenty-minute ride via cab from Simei Street. My friend and I booked via Grabcar. I believe it will take more than an hour via MRT from the airport. For the River Safari tickets, I paid USD 31.30 for two via Klook. (Seriously, it’s a great booking app. Lots of discounts!)

River Safari is not your regular zoo as it has a river theme featuring about ten rivers of the world and their menagerie. You might think the price is a bit steep but, for me, it’s a steal as it came with a boat ride– the Amazon River Quest– which I immensely enjoyed I had a second go on it! I loved the pink flamingoes!

And, of course, the pandas, are the must-see attractions, as well as the tiny, perky red panda.

To be honest, I am not a big fan of wildlife parks. I’d rather these animals are left alone in the wild but then I can’t help feeling a bit partial about the whole thing as I also want to experience them as I know it would be nearly impossible for me to see them in the wild. I can only hope that they are well-taken cared of in these zoos. 😊

That’s it for now! I will write about my Penang trip on my next post. (Best solo trip ever!)

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